what if

We only love to be loved back.
We only play to win, we don’t like playing any game after losing at it.
We hate being defeated and only seek to win, what ever it is.
We only help if we get paid or returned the same favour at some point.
By everything we do, we only seek confirmations that we are the best. We never do anything that keeps us on the other side of pleasure.

What if…

Once in a while or at least once in this lifetime we did something just because it feels like the right thing to do, in our heart? What if for doing it we did not expect absolutely nothing în return? What if we did not give up on a certain person or thing because it is hard on us to keep around or helping, instead just decide to move on literally and utterly in pain anyway? I truly believe that if you feel that something is worth it, the goal is much bigger if you succeed in the end.

Sometimes it is all about not giving up, not letting go, but persevere even though it is hard to go on, even if the result you are waiting for is far, far away. What could happen?

All of us, in a very selfish way, think that we only have one life and we say it is not ok to suffer and keep crying for anything at all and finally decide to give up on almost all our projects. Work, friends, love… Anything can be listed above…

And I say again, what if we could keep calm and just not give up, whatever happens? What if we stopped for a second and think about it, if at some point it felt like the right thing to do, why do we give up for so many times and in the end, definitely?

I’m not saying never to give up at all, there are things that are not worth it, of course, but we give up on so many other things that are worth it, just because we are not getting back in return our long awaited reward. Maybe it’s not a reward we should expect but just do it because it had to be done and no one else would have bothered to do it. Maybe it was only you who had to do it if you felt it. What if we never had to wonder what if…?

Just keep on going. Believe it until the end. Make the ending yourself, when it is good. Never stop. Never give up. Even if it hurts like hell. Keep on doing it. See what happens. My bet is that you’ll thank yourself.

So… What if…?

I. D. M.